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		<title>Comment on The Feminist Battle by thanhdlu</title>
		<link>http://thanhdlu.com/2010/02/the-feminist-battle/comment-page-1/#comment-148</link>
		<dc:creator>thanhdlu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Feb 2010 20:52:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree Catrien! Good reminder. Thanks!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree Catrien! Good reminder. Thanks!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Rise to the Top Interviews Seth Godin by thanhdlu</title>
		<link>http://thanhdlu.com/2010/02/rise-to-the-top-interviews-seth-godin/comment-page-1/#comment-147</link>
		<dc:creator>thanhdlu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Feb 2010 20:52:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I did...you have great stuff for entrepreneurs on your website! Thanks!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I did&#8230;you have great stuff for entrepreneurs on your website! Thanks!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Self-Worth for Sale? by thanhdlu</title>
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		<dc:creator>thanhdlu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Feb 2010 20:51:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Awww...thanks Zoli!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Awww&#8230;thanks Zoli!</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Evolution of Education by thanhdlu</title>
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		<dc:creator>thanhdlu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Feb 2010 20:51:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Joel!</description>
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		<title>Comment on The Evolution of Education by Joel</title>
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		<dc:creator>Joel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Feb 2010 09:54:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What a great resource!  Thanks Thanh!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What a great resource!  Thanks Thanh!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Self-Worth for Sale? by Zoli Cserei</title>
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		<dc:creator>Zoli Cserei</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Feb 2010 12:51:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;em&gt;Thanh,&lt;/em&gt;

I think you did the right thing to do, and that was good to hear :) $10 is not worth arguing, and I think the plumber guy also learned some stuff from this happening to him. Maybe they are not used to behaviour like yours so they act this way.

Take care,
Zoli</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Thanh,</em></p>
<p>I think you did the right thing to do, and that was good to hear <img src='http://thanhdlu.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  $10 is not worth arguing, and I think the plumber guy also learned some stuff from this happening to him. Maybe they are not used to behaviour like yours so they act this way.</p>
<p>Take care,<br />
Zoli</p>
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		<title>Comment on Rise to the Top Interviews Seth Godin by David Siteman Garland</title>
		<link>http://thanhdlu.com/2010/02/rise-to-the-top-interviews-seth-godin/comment-page-1/#comment-139</link>
		<dc:creator>David Siteman Garland</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Feb 2010 18:02:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It was a blast doing the interview for you and so glad you got some takeaways!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It was a blast doing the interview for you and so glad you got some takeaways!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Be a Linchpin: Say Yes When Saying No is a Given by thanhdlu</title>
		<link>http://thanhdlu.com/2010/02/be-a-linchpin-say-yes-when-saying-no-is-a-given/comment-page-1/#comment-135</link>
		<dc:creator>thanhdlu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Feb 2010 06:58:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for sharing your comments Dan - I agree with your point about genuineness. That&#039;s the great thing about working with people - people give great feedback, and you learn a lot through people&#039;s non-verbal feedback and the results you get. I often remind myself about this. When I get or don&#039;t get what I want, I feel I&#039;m responsible, first and foremost. It&#039;s a learning process. 

 People faking and getting upset is normal, however, those people need to be upset at the right person, with themselves, and see that they need to learn and change,  not be upset at the undesired results.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for sharing your comments Dan &#8211; I agree with your point about genuineness. That&#8217;s the great thing about working with people &#8211; people give great feedback, and you learn a lot through people&#8217;s non-verbal feedback and the results you get. I often remind myself about this. When I get or don&#8217;t get what I want, I feel I&#8217;m responsible, first and foremost. It&#8217;s a learning process. </p>
<p> People faking and getting upset is normal, however, those people need to be upset at the right person, with themselves, and see that they need to learn and change,  not be upset at the undesired results.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Be a Linchpin: Say Yes When Saying No is a Given by Dan @ Anxiety Support Network</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dan @ Anxiety Support Network</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Feb 2010 04:21:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Doing the little things like that can go a very long way!  I like the post and I think that it tends to ring true, but only if your friendliness is genuine.  This world is bombarded by people who fake it and then become upset when they don&#039;t receive the outcome they wanted.  Great post, and you have inspired me to continue to use this approach in my own life.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Doing the little things like that can go a very long way!  I like the post and I think that it tends to ring true, but only if your friendliness is genuine.  This world is bombarded by people who fake it and then become upset when they don&#8217;t receive the outcome they wanted.  Great post, and you have inspired me to continue to use this approach in my own life.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Feminist Battle by thanhdlu</title>
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		<dc:creator>thanhdlu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Feb 2010 21:06:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for your comments. And your addition is a great reminder. I like it!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for your comments. And your addition is a great reminder. I like it!</p>
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